I am seriously ticked off today. Its April 19...i still have 9 days technically to wait for the rest of the slow people getting back to me. But i am already being proactive because i was anticipating so many +1 guests. I already spoke to these people about not bringing someone random to the wedding but i guess they dont get it. I told them IF we had room we would try to get them in.
Of 200 people i invited and 150 i paid for, we are at 133 people (on target) but have 10 + 1 guests i cant say yes to until i get the RSVPs back . but of the 133 i am counting as yes, like 40 of them technically havent sent us an RSVP and just verbally told us yes they would probably be there. Well, probably doesnt cut it for me. So we could be as low as 90 something people if these people who verbally sorta confirmed decide to not come. I havent heard anything from about 40 other people we are waiting on. This would put us at like 20 over our number if they wind up coming. I am freaking out because i dont know whether to give the venue a heads up of the additional people or just say screw it and wait or what to do. at this point if only 90 people come, i have overpaid the venue by about 10 grand. I only have to guarantee 100.
and i hate that people just dont have the decency to send the RSVP back in the self addressed stamped envelope we sent to them. how hard is it to check yes, walk to the mailbox and put it in there with the flag up. UGH!!!!!!!!!!!! so effing annoying.
this has me so stressed out today!