Hello there - This is my very first post on the boards!

I have a serious indecisiveness issue! I love so many different styles of weddings, and I want to be able to find a way to have a semi-formal wedding, but to do so in a laid back venue, like a barn. Is this even possible? What I'd really like is to rent a mansion, but they are just too expensive. I've found a few images of barns all prettied up for a reception, and I think it looks beautiful! But I also want to have a formal dress, and the bridal party will be formal.
I'm basically overwhelmed with all the options that are out there...especially the beautiful ones!
Does anyone out there know of a barn that is possible to rent that won't cost me my first born? Here are a couple of images of what I would like:

Thank you so much for any ideas you may have or suggestions or answers!
Much apprecaited!