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Tell It All Thursday

What are your insecurities?

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Re: Tell It All Thursday

  • happe2getherhappe2gether member
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    edited December 2011
    My weight.  The size I am now is MUCH bigger than 5 years ago when we first started dating.  I'm hoping it won't become a bigger issue when I start dress shopping.

    Losing some weight in 2011 is a major goal.
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  • msapril0730msapril0730 member
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    edited December 2011
    My weight and my lisp
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  • 7venAfricano7venAfricano member
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    edited December 2011
    insecurities...i'm furry (anybody with stray hair knows what I mean), upper back, lip, sideburns, chin- I want to get laser hair removal so bad. My butt- it doesn't exist. I feel so bad about it because I don't have that average black girl donk so- yea. If I was a lesser woman I would probably have surgery done. My weight. I was 156 before having our oldest 5yrs ago and now i weight 220, which is good since I weighed 240 in August. AND last but not least, my looks in general. I don't even consider myself average, but I get by. I hate taking pictures or even having my fiance stare at me too long.
  • edited December 2011
    my Weight, is def going to be a priority in 2011, i mean im proud to have hips dips and curves.but wanna drop about 20-30 lbs with in the next year. become a lil tighter and healthier
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  • tyboydtyboyd member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_tell-thursday-31?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:c8a0abdb-0fdc-4770-840c-23281afa0d85Post:ff5fa3bb-a917-4512-a5b0-84166dad4971">Re: Tell It All Thursday</a>:
    [QUOTE]My weight and my lisp
    Posted by msapril0730[/QUOTE]

    Girl, I used to have a lisp. But someone would always talk about it until I taught myself how to talk without it! And it's been gone ever since. {and he was the ONLY person that tlkd about me!}

    My current insecurity is my weight. I've gained about 20lbs since meeting FI a year and a half ago. And I sometimes don't think I'm pretty. I think that's it.
  • sheshedukeshesheduke member
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    edited December 2011
    My weight and my gap. I have put on a few pounds that WILL be coming off very soon. My clothes still fit and I have not jumped sizes or anything I just feel things getting tighter and I need to check it before it becomes a HOT MESS.

    I have had a gap in my teeth forever and that stops me from having a real smile. I am always trying to hide it so I don't smile often. My smiles looks fake unless I make myself laugh before the smile then it looks somewhat real.
  • edited December 2011
    My weight.. i gained 8 lbs since Sept & its driving me crazy, cuz it goes straight to my stomach...The worst place imaginable
  • edited December 2011
    My weight. But I got my Zumba dvds a couple days ago and this weight is gonna be outta here!
  • edited December 2011
    This chin hair. OMG....I have to pluck like almost every day. I'm a girly type of girl, so having frequent chin hairs irritates me & makes me feel masculine...lol.

    @shesheduke: I understand how you feel about the gap. I had a gap & it really affected my self-esteem. My mom could never afford to get me braces. So, I finally got them at 26 yrs old (when I could use my own insurance & pay for them) and got them taken off 2 years later. So...I feel ya on that one!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_tell-thursday-31?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:400Discussion:c8a0abdb-0fdc-4770-840c-23281afa0d85Post:7b7253de-5d29-4bbf-aca6-c44e8bec3d70">Re: Tell It All Thursday</a>:
    [QUOTE]insecurities...i'm furry (anybody with stray hair knows what I mean), upper back, lip, sideburns, chin- I want to get laser hair removal so bad. My butt- it doesn't exist. I feel so bad about it because I don't have that average black girl donk so- yea. If I was a lesser woman I would probably have surgery done. My weight. I was 156 before having our oldest 5yrs ago and now i weight 220, which is good since I weighed 240 in August. AND last but not least, my looks in general. I don't even consider myself average, but I get by. I hate taking pictures or even having my fiance stare at me too long.
    Posted by 7venAfricano[/QUOTE]
    Gurl....I always look at your picture and think she is so Jill Scott-ish. I really dig your hair.
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  • edited December 2011
    I have a gap toothed smile too and my BF is always posting pictures of me smiling real big. If he likes it....but my real shyness comes from my weight. I wish I could be about 15 pounds less. But its Friday so I don't have to think about it anymore.
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  • edited December 2011
    My weight.  I have gained about 30 lbs. since we first started dating.  The gym and weight watchers are priorities for 2011.
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