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T and P's please.

Danidawn20Danidawn20
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Hi knotties,
 I was wondering if I could please have T's and P's for my little sister. She is having a hard time in college right now and deling with what our father did to us as kids. She's been drinking quiet a bit, and I just found out that a friend had to stop her fomr hurting her self.  I'm going to hopefully see her after I gradute on Sunday to see how she is doing, but can I please have T's and P's.
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  • iluvmytxrgriluvmytxrgr member
    Knottie Warrior 1000 Comments 25 Love Its Name Dropper
    edited December 2011
    Many prayers, Sweetheart. 
    Look around campus and see if there is some type of group that may be of help to her.  There usually are.  If not, look up Celebration Recovery and see if there is one near her.  It may help her to know that she is not alone.  It may also help her if you are willing to attend a meeting with her. 
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  • Danidawn20Danidawn20
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_t-ps-please?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:7a500e25-de99-4bb9-aa7f-167fe5c752cePost:a77ca771-6d10-44fb-8994-5a7567eaca74">Re: T and P's please.</a>:
    [QUOTE]Many prayers, Sweetheart.  Look around campus and see if there is some type of group that may be of help to her.  There usually are.  If not, look up Celebration Recovery and see if there is one near her.  It may help her to know that she is not alone.  It may also help her if you are willing to attend a meeting with her. 
    Posted by iluvmytxrgr[/QUOTE]
     Thanks. My friend who goes to her school says their is counseling their for students, I plan on tlking to her bout going to see  the school counselor. 
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  • DaKelliAB09DaKelliAB09
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry to hear this.  Will be praying!
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  • amh04amh04
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry to hear about your sister! Thoughts and prayers your way!
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  • HugsAndKisses135HugsAndKisses135 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thoughts and prayers! Emotional scars are the hardest to heal. I hope she will be receptive to the idea of counseling.
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  • SamiJoeBSamiJoeB
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    edited December 2011
    Lots of T&P's Dani!!!
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  • melbelle24melbelle24 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thoughts and prayers, both for you and your sister! Just as a note, from somebody who's been through this personally and professionally, be careful when you talk to her. I know you're worried, but if she isn't willing to see it as a problem and open to getting help, you pushing it on her is just going to cause more damage. Praying for wisdom for you in your talk and an open heart from her! Good luck!
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  • Danidawn20Danidawn20
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_military-brides_t-ps-please?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:13Discussion:7a500e25-de99-4bb9-aa7f-167fe5c752cePost:06480b74-34e3-4777-ac26-b2606f07bc1d">Re: T and P's please.</a>:
    [QUOTE]Thoughts and prayers, both for you and your sister! Just as a note, from somebody who's been through this personally and professionally, be careful when you talk to her. I know you're worried, but if she isn't willing to see it as a problem and open to getting help, you pushing it on her is just going to cause more damage. Praying for wisdom for you in your talk and an open heart from her! Good luck!
    Posted by melbelle24[/QUOTE]
     Thank you for the tip, I will defanitly keep it in mind when talkingto her.
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  • crownsuperstarcrownsuperstar member
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    edited December 2011
    Thoughts and prayers for your sister.  I would also agree with having her meet with someone in the counseling center. They are a great resource for students. 
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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    Good luck, and best wishes!  This never an easy topic to tackle with someone.  If I may advise, it might be beneficial for you to talk to a therapist about it before you approach her?  They can help you create a plan to be as non-confrontational about it as possible, plus help you understand how she may or may not react.

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  • kmmssgkmmssg mod
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    edited December 2011
    Lots of hugs and prayers for you both.  Help her get into counseling right now.  When she finds a safe place with others who have gone through the same thing it can be the beginning of healing.
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