My MOH has offered to throw me a bridal shower. I initially refused but she persisted so I let it go. The more I think about it, the more I feel I don't want it. Is it too late to refuse now? I dont think she has started any official planning (no guest list, no date, no venue, etc) Wedding is in May, so shower would probably around March/April.
Side note - any ladies who did not have a shower - did you ever regret it? Feel like you missed out? I think that may be why I'm holding back on telling her is the fear that I might be missing out on something (if that makes any sense?) I know that nobody is entitled to these things but maybe some other perspectives may help me.