I think I am on the right track with this invitation wording, but I just wanted to check in.
My dad and stepmother are hosting the wedding and reception. FI's father and stepmother are hosting an after-party event. There is great bitterness between my mom and my dad/stepmom, and she will be very insulted if she is not included on invite (even though she is not hosting any event). FI also wants his parents somewhere on invite, and prefers both his dad and mom included. So here is what I have.
Dr. and Mrs. My Dad
Request the pleasure of your company
At the marriage of his daughter
My Full Name
Daughter of My Mom
FI’s Full Name
Son of His Mom and His Dad
Reception to Follow
Is this okay? We are leaving out my stepdad (mom's new husband, not hosting anyting) and my FI's stepmom (hosting afterparty along with his Dad. I just can't image an invitation with all eight parents names on it! But I don't want to slight FI's dad and stepmom who are actually hosting the afterparty event.
Sorrry this is so long, but it is a bit complicated.