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Anyone else feel....

KellyRVTKellyRVT member
Fifth Anniversary 100 Comments
in Ohio-Columbus
really awkward when people you aren't inviting to your wedding ask you about it? I have several casual friends that ask me on a regular basis, and with genuine interest, about the wedding planning. I hate talking to them about it because I know they aren't on my guest list. But, I don't know if they realize that. ugh.


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Re: Anyone else feel....

  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    edited December 2011
    We had that some, but not as much as I think it would have been if we lived in our homestate.

    Just bean dip them, change the subject when they ask you about it. Hopefully they will get the clue.
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  • Cassandra999Cassandra999 member
    100 Comments Second Anniversary
    edited December 2011
    I'm a little worried about that happening as our wedding gets closer.  On the other hand I woud not assume I would be invited to their wedding.
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  • osumegsosumegs member
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    edited December 2011
    I have that happen at work a lot. I'm not inviting any of my co-workers since I'm technically their boss. I just felt it awkward and uncomfortable. They keep asking for pictures and such, even though they know at this point they won't be invited. I definitely understand what you are saying!
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  • MissOwlMissOwl
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    edited December 2011
    i'm ney still (although we're ring shopping this weekend!), but i dread that so much. i know that bf and i really want to have an intimate wedding so i'm sure we'll get that a lot.
    Linky link to MissOwl's Pinterest Wedding Countdown Ticker
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  • nnoble4nnoble4
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    edited December 2011
    It is really awkward. I'll just briefly answer the question and move on.

    I gotta say that a friend of mine was getting married last year, and she talked so much about it with me, that I was kind of shocked that I didn't receive an invitation.  With the amount she talked about it, coupled with the size, I was suprised not to receive one.  So, I think I try to be extra careful about doing the same.
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  • kmosukmosu
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Addition to that.....should I casually mention to the other managers at my hospital that they aren't invited?  I don't want anyone to get mad but I have such a large family that we had to keep the number of friends to a minimum.  I feel incredibly akward when they ask the date and other questions.
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  • sherise40sherise40 member
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    edited December 2011
    I had to attend a funeral on Thursday and did not want to talk to anyone about it. I have a huge family so I am only inviting the ones I talk to on a REGULAR basis. Well one of my DAD's cousins came up to me and said and I quote "Your wedding is in July right? I want my sons to come with me so they can meet some of their family" I didnt say anything and just looked at my dad.
    He said to go ahead and just invite her (he is paying for the reception). I feel bad because my numbers are getting high. But my dad said it was fine. I only hope she doesnt talk to others about coming.
    She emailed me yesterday. I am going to tell her in a nice way to not invite people willy nilly.
    I say just say yeah we are keeping it small and intimate, but I will send you an announcement after they are made.....I am going to start saying that....
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