Oh man I never thought I'd post here, but I'm frustrated. I am extremley laid back in all this wedding crap. I'm doing it because its important to my DF, if things were my way I'd just want to go to city hall and be done with it. I don't want showers, or stag & does, or any big hoopla over it.
However it seems friends/family want all that so I'm trying to grin and bare it.
The issue is my Maid of honor...love her to pieces, but she is unreliable. We have made plans three weeks in a row to get together and organize invites for the shower she is supposed to be hosting...she hasn't showed, doesn't call to change. I call, no answer. Two days after I get an email saying "oops sorry forgot". Today same thing happened.
My other bridesmaid could care less. She doesn't want to do anything if the other two are involved. She just wants to sit back and let it all happen, but won't step up and offer anything. She'll ask me, I'll say call the MOH to get her ideas, she won't do it.
My third bridesmaid is trying, however she lives two days drive away and won't be in town again until the month before the wedding...so although she's trying to get everyone organized, she can't do a whole lot.
No point really to this, I just need to vent out my frustration...if they had all listened and agreed NOT to bother with showers and such I would be a much happier person...if your gonna push me into it than at least take the stress off and don't leave me hanging with it all.