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Major Bridal Shower Issue. What would you do?

So My maid of Honor put off my bridal shower until last minute and she had me help her make the invitations and we sent them out and now she is leaving tomorrow until the 18th on vacation (my bridal shower is on the 19th) and I just talked to her and she has bought nothing for it and she was supposed to call everyone and see if they were coming and if they were bringing any food (it’s a pot luck) and she didn’t do that either. She said she will be too busy today to do anything and she won’t have time when she gets back because it will be too late. Now she wants me to go out and plan/buy everything for my shower. I feel stupid planning my own bridal shower though not to mention the stress of already planning a wedding, working, house hunting and we just found out im pregnant with our second! It’s really stressing me out should I just call everyone and Cancel it? I’m going to feel embarrassed having to call everyone and telling them not to come…. What would you do?

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Re: Major Bridal Shower Issue. What would you do?

  • I would cancel.

    Guests should not be asked to bring the food, in addition to a shower gift. The host (or hosts) should provide the refreshments for the guests. It's inappropriate for the bride to host her own shower.
                       
  • 1) You shouldn't be involved in planning your own shower
    2) Guests should not be asked to bring anything. Potlucks are tacky.

    Cancel before you look like a fool.
     
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  • kmmssgkmmssg mod
    Moderator Knottie Warrior 5000 Comments 500 Love Its
    edited May 2012
    Agree.  Cancel or you will not be seen in a good light.  She has planned very very poorly and guests should NEVER be asked to bring food to a party like this.  Just cancel and get this out of your hair.
  • I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I hope your MOH knows how embarrassed you are because of her negligence. You shouldn't feel stressed, or embarrased during your bridal shower! I hope it all works out for you.
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