So my parents (actually Mom) really want us to have an AHR. We were kinda wavering, but figured we'd be open to a low key something - backyard BBQ open house idea. We would have done it at our house, but we're still living in dirt and don't have a deck yet. We were thinking my parents house as they have a good size yard and detached garage in case of rain. Mom wasn't keen on it in case of rain and having potentially 80 people using her bathroom. We kind of let it go and unofficially decided to not have one because of logistics. We're also not feeling a need to be the centre of attention again.
This morning, Mom propsed an AHR again, this time at their house, backyard, garage, etc., low key BBQ open house, basically what we would have been good with orginally. We're not sure whether we should accept their offer or not. Were both on the fence. We could do it or not and not really be bothered either way. Please talk me either into or out of the party!! Thanks ladies!!