So my boyfriend and I have pretty much decided that we are going to get engaged. We have picked a ring (thanks girls!) and set a budget for both of us to save for it. We have told our families that our intention is to get engaged and eventually married.
We have gone so far as to pick a date. Here is where I feel silly. I understand why he wants to pick a date and start planning. His mom lives in WA and is supporting his 2 older siblings and he has a brother that just turned 7. So obviously she needs notice to be financially capable to come. We are going to ask my step-uncle if he could spare any of his "friends and family" passes since he works for an airline, but it only covers 90% of the cost. We would offer to pay but can't afford all four of them.
I guess my question is: Is it okay to set a date for a wedding when you aren't even engaged?