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kiki1978 · June 2012

Hello everyone! I've never posted on here, but I need to get my act together. I'm about 50-60 pounds overweight. I want to lose weight so badly, but I know that a gradual approach is best. I'm very tempted by the Body by Vi shakes or the pills you can get from the Medical Weight Loss centers. The logical part of my mind says: stop eating like crap and start working out again. I would appreciate any advice you guys may give me. TIA!

anna.oskar · June 2012

Yeah, those shake and pill systems are great for losing but a lot of people just gain it all back as soon as they quit. Plus they can be pricey.

How I lost weight is actually quite simple (in principle) but it took breaking a lot of bad habits and forming new ones to get here. Here are the basics (I blogged about the whole experience too and the link to that is in my signature below)

*Get the crap out of the house. If you have chips in your cupboard 24/7, someone is going to eat them. If you have frozen processed lunches, it's too easy to grab that. Remove the ease of access to things. Example: i love cake and ice cream. i never have it in the house any more. If i want it, I have to debate whether it is worth it to go spend the money, get dressed, take the time to drive to a restaurant type place to get it. 50% of the time it's not so I can avoid it. The other 50% of the time, I go and enjoy myself.

*Don't lose your favorite foods. Find healthier alternatives. For ice cream, there is a frozen yogurt place that has some fat-free and sugar-free choices plus toppings. I'm going there tonight because their new flavor is "cheesecake". I'll top it with fresh fruit or even cocoa roasted almonds. Not only is it not bad for me.. it's actually good for me. Pizza is a greasy yet flavorful diet killer if you overdo it regularly. But there are DIY pizza recipes that are delicious and nutritious. (fyi: turkey pepperoni is just as tasty as regular and WAY better for you)

*Track your food. All of it. Everything you put into your mouth has a potential to impact your health. Hop on a site like SparkPeople.com (it's free and has apps) and you will soon be able to see exactly where your food problems are. Previous to doing that i was actually an under-eater. Years of dieting had me slowly reducing my intake until I barely topped 900 calories most days. I think my first week i tracked a 650 cal day. Because of that, my body was in starvation mode and holding onto every darn bit of fat it could as a self-preservation technique.

*Start an exercise routine. It doesn't need to be something huge like taking on the p90x dvd program or running a marathon. Just get moving. Even a daily walk with a H/FI can start improving your health. One of my favorite exercises is playing "chase the kittens" it's like hide-and-seek but at high speeds all over the house. 20 minutes of that and you feel like you've worked out.

*Set realistic healthy goals but set some superficial ones too. My goal is to not be the fat mom some day. When we have kids, I don't want to be too tired to play, I don't want to be an embarrassment to them as teenagers, and I want to teach them how to have a healthy lifestyle so they never have to struggle with this like i have since I was young. I want to go to the doctor for a yearly physical and just once to be not reminded that I really should lose weight. Side goals: i want to look hot. I want to walk into stores and not have clerks look at me with that "we only carry normal sizes" pity. I want to like who I see in the mirror. i want to wear a bikini in public without feeling like I should wear shorts and a t-shirt over it to not offend people with my blubber. I want to wear cute flowy dresses and shirts without worrying that it could make me look pregnant.

*Eat your veggies. Your body needs vitamins. Veggies and fruits are SO good for you. If you don't like the taste (like my H didn't) there are tons of ways to prepare them and sneak them in that are delicious.

*Eat breakfast. I feel like my body doesn't get revved up until I eat something. Even if it's just a single cheese because I'm not hungry when I first wake up, that wakes up my system. I feel like it's led to a more efficient body for me.

*Meal planning: It's not only good for your wallet (helps avoid impulse buys) but it also allows you to make sure you always have healthy food on hand. I have no "convenience" food in my house. But i could whip up a dinner right now with only 10 minutes warning because after i shop I come home and do the whole week's meal prep (what I can anyway) and packages everything in little containers. I have single servings of cheese and meat cubes, cottage cheese, sugar free jello, sugar free pudding, beef jerky, cut veggies and dip. All of those are free snacks. If I'm hungry, I eat. I also portion out things that I'll need for various dinners and cook things like boiled eggs, mini egg bakes for breakfasts, and chicken breasts that all make for easy and quick snacks and salad additions.

*Eat: getting yourself a healthy diet should not involve suffering needlessly. If you are hungry, eat. just stay away from crap foods. I had heard it before and didn't quite believe it, but crappy food makes you want more crappy food. A little handful of chips can quickly become half a bag (pop chips are a delicious and healthier alternative) whereas healthy things seem to satiate me better. plus, there is no guilt. If i want more watermelon, cheese, or whatever... I eat it.

*Don't be lazy: it's SO easy to just say I'll do it later, I'll start tomorrow, or just to keep doing what you've always done. But we're on a weight loss and fitness board... obviously it hasn't worked. Sure, maybe someone once lost 40lbs on WW or "dieted" their way to 15 lbs last year. But if you're here and overweight, regardless of past losses, you're doing it wrong. The real goal is to get to a weight that's healthy and to maintain it. Without having to obsess over it. You want a healthy lifestyle. Everyone does. I know I'd like to never count calories or debate over whether I really need a second helping of mashed potatoes and gravy. It should be intuitive. I think once I know what all foods are worth to my body completely and totally without thinking, can eat pizza without worrying about the scale, then I think I'll have truly made it. Because then my lifestyle will be healthy and complete.

J&K10910 · June 2012

Go with the logical part of your mind. Yeah, those programs work for a lot of people, but the problem is that they're not sustainable, and when you go back to eating normally, you gain everything back. Making lifestyle changes is the only way to lose weight and keep it off safely and healthily.

Start small. Start tracking your calories. See how much you're really eating. Once you've got a handle on that, make small changes. Don't cut anything out at first purposely, but make an attainable goal like eating at least 5 serving of fruits and veggies every day. The next week, make a new goal. Slowly, these habits will replace your bad eating habits. Start finding ways to make favorite foods and recipes healthier. Don't cut out your favorite things completely. You don't need to stop eating red meat, or grains, or chocolate, or booze. You just need to be smart about it.

Also, with 3 weeks until your wedding: Wait until after your wedding to start. You don't want an ill-fitting dress.

kiki1978 · June 2012

Thanks everyone! I appreciate all the advice. I'm going to start on small changes at first and get moving for sure! I know that I can't really do much before the wedding, but after we get back from the honeymoon, it's on! Thanks again.

jjswin · June 2012

Sounds like you know what you need to do you just need to start doing it.
I have always found WW worked for me with watching my eating and being able to eat the things I wanted, just had to find the right balance. The free web sites and apps are great too but I always felt like if I paid for something I would stick to it more, WW always is running specials so sometimes it's not much to join.
As for the starting to work out again, start slow so you don't go crazy and not want to continue. I am currently doing the C25K running program. I have never been a runner (and hated it) but I knew if I wanted to get in better shape it was something I was going to have to learn to do. I like the C25K program because you start small so your body gets use to it, and you can repeat weeks if needed. They have an iPhone app that will talk to you during each workout or you could read the program online for free.
Good Luck!

LORIITRICH · June 2012

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[QUOTE]Hello everyone! I've never posted on here, but I need to get my act together. I'm about 50-60 pounds overweight. I want to lose weight so badly, but I know that a gradual approach is best. I'm very tempted by the Body by Vi shakes or the pills you can get from the Medical Weight Loss centers. The logical part of my mind says: stop eating like crap and start working out again. I would appreciate any advice you guys may give me. TIA!
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LORIITRICH · June 2012

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Lobsters25 · June 2012

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