I'm a little discouraged..... my wedding is a "package" type thing the Bed and Breakfast we're renting for the weekend - 2 bouquets and a bout are included. When we first went there to talk about what we wanted - they seemed very accomodating and they said if I wanted specific colors/flowers - whatever just send them pictures via snail mail since they aren't very tech saavy and it would be fine. (edit: I DID SNAIL MAIL THEM PICTURES!!) Today I had e-mailed to confirm check in times and I asked if the specifics on flowers had been nailed down yet and I got a response that an "off'-white" bouquet is part of the package and if I wanted something else i'd need to work directly with the florist..... I'm okay with that - but to me that spells more money... I've already shelled out additional money to keep the photographer longer....... do orange roses really cost more white ones? To me - and this is maybe just me - a white bouquet with white/ivory dress doesn't really stand out....... I really really want orange - it'll be an awesome pop of color and I also included orange in FI's custom shoes.... I'm feeling overwhelmed and broke. Is white super normal and I'm just strange??