So I've lurked for a while, but I'm coming out and diving in. I'm recently engaged, and we're getting the ball rolling. I'm having some serious stress over this wedding already. I think the fact that I myself am a wedding photographer has added wayyyy too much pressure.
So here's my question:
My parents are divorced, dad is remarried (has been since I was 13) and I lived with my dad/stepmom from high school on. My mom and I are not that close, but I am close with my stepmom.
My dad is contributing about 50% of our wedding budget, and realistically will probably end up paying more than that. We are picking up the rest of the tab ourselves. Dad's giving us a sizable chunk to spend however we wish, and does not require any input from himself or my stepmom. I highly doubt my mom will contribute anything.
Is it terribly horrible of me to word the invitations as:
Mr. & Mrs. Bride's Dad/Stepmom
request the pleasure of your company.....
Not listing mom? I feel like my dad/stepmom are the ones contributing the most financially and are the ones technically hosting the wedding. How do I avoid the sh*t storm that is going to happen when my mom is left off the invitation?