July 2012 Weddings

having a break down 2 days out...

I apologize ahead of time bc I'm probably going to sound a little bit like a bratty bridezilla.

As you know my wedding is Friday, 2 days from now. I completely get that my wedding is no where near as important to anyone else as it is to me. That being said...I am so freaking upset with EVERYONE I know.

One of my best friends came in town yesterday. The old gang wanted to go out tonight. Now, if one of them was getting married, I would have had this planned out weeks ago, knowing our close out of town friend was coming. Sadly, I'm the only planner I'm a bit preoccupied planning my freaking wedding!!!!! So...this morning text start flying around about going out tonight. I CAN'T stay out late, I have a lot of set up to do tomorrow, plus the rehearsal dinner I want to get in bed at a reasonable time the night b4 the wedding. Everyone seemed good with a 7pm reservation. Now nobody wants to head out for dinner until 9!? What!? They all have other things they "have" to do. It's not stuff that's important. I said I didn't want to do that suddenly I'm being silly about not wanting to go at that time. I told them just to forget it go out without me. I'm tired of being the least important thing.

This was just like the last straw. I'm so sick tired of how inconsiderate everyone of our friends family are being. I don't even want to see anyone right now could care less if they even come to the wedding.
:)AJ Pregnancy Ticker

Re: having a break down 2 days out...

  • Sorry...paragraphs never work on mobile for some reason.
    :)AJ Pregnancy Ticker
  • Ugh I am sorry. Get away from everything for a bit, even for a few hours and collect yourself. Go for a nice walk or have a good cry- release all the tension.

    Be firm and tell your friends you cannot be out that late and that you'll meet them up until ____ and then you'll need to head back home. 
    doggie Wedding Countdown Ticker
  • I'm just going to go to bed. I don't want to even go out for a little while since I'm "being a brat" "being mean" for not wanting to go out late. Whatever...
    :)AJ Pregnancy Ticker
  • no you're not being mean...I would have the same reaction as you are...I definitely want to be in bed at reasonable times the entire time I'm home for the wedding....I don't want to be crabby and I need my rest...
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.weddingchannel.com/main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_having-a-break-down-2-days-out?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:50e152c7-4dd1-4099-9f2f-1485172d4c2aPost:bf9c3cec-2934-4bfb-828b-8ce1f8636569">Re: having a break down 2 days out...</a>:
    [QUOTE]no you're not being mean...I would have the same reaction as you are...I definitely want to be in bed at reasonable times the entire time I'm home for the wedding....I don't want to be crabby and I need my rest...
    Posted by littlemoments324[/QUOTE]



    This. I would've reacted the same way. They should have understood your situation. But I agree, you should just breathe, relax, and tomorrow is a new day. You get married in two days! :) then all this ridiculous planning and nit picking of every detail is over!
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