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Father Trouble!!! Hissy fit on the rise!

I am in desperate need of advice!! I just went on my wedding website and saw that a friend of my dad had RSVPd. This friend was not invited, nor have I seen him in 10 years. Now some background on why I'm so upset: My father and I have a very strained relationship, we have barely talked my entire engagement, and have just recently started being friends again. He was not supportive of me getting married, and has not contributed a single dime to me in years. He has had no part in the planning process whatsoever. And now he's invited a person that I barely know or remember!
Here's what I need advice on, because I'm about to throw a major bridezilla hissy fit!
How do I confront him when I am so pissed that I could punch him!? I'm blown away that he did this behind my back, without even asking if he could invite someone else.
HELP PLEASE!!!!

Re: Father Trouble!!! Hissy fit on the rise!

  • so you have a non-password protected rsvp wedding site that anyone can access and decide to rsvp to your wedding. this is not a good idea.
  • i would be irritated if i got an rsvp from someone who was not invited, but you may need to let this one slide.  you should definitely let your dad know how you feel, he really should have asked you first! 

    and like the PP have said, password protect your site immediately!  google your and your FI's names.  you may find that the site pops right up.  you don't need invitations to easily find people's wedding websites!
  • I would fake calmness "hey dad, so-and-so rsvped to the wedding, but he wasn't invited, do you know anything about that?"
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