My Partner and I have been together for 4 years and we're planning on getting married this October. All our friends and Her family are really excited and supportive. My Family is a whole other universe. My parents are still getting use to me having a partner; my dad doesn't support gay marriage, but he supports a "committed union between a same sex couple for insurance purposes." He's also iffy on me having kids, but thats another issue. Also The rest of my family doesn't really know i'm gay and/or that i have a partner.
I want my family to know and possibly show up for my wedding, but I don't know how to tell them and i don't know how to get around my dad's feelings.
I know I can't make everyone happy but I'm an only child and My parents are a big part of my life.
ANY thoughts, advice, yelling at's, Would be greatly received?
Thank you