Today, I was driving around town with a lady I work with in ministry at our church. We started talking about personal issues (no big deal, I'm an open book), but she asked me if I was on the pill? I was absolutely stunned! I told her "no, I'm not on the pill. BF and I are not sleeping together. We're waiting til we get married." She was really surprised to hear this and even more surprised to hear that BF and I were both still virgins. She even questioned me at first b/c she didn't really believe me. I assured her we were and that we are waiting.
I'm a Christian. She's a Christian. We work in ministry together. I know that some Christians have pre-marital sex anyway even though the Bible doesn't support it, but why on earth would she just ASSUME that we were having sex? She even knows that I grew up in a Christian home (my dad's even a pastor!) so I grew up with good morals and standards and was blessed with a great example of marriage by my parents. So why would she just assume that we were sleeping together and then act really shocked when I told her we weren't?
I'm a little offended, but I think I should just let it go. I know she grew up with a rough past and didn't wait, but that's before she became a Christian. My only guess is that she hasn't met a whole lot of people in her circle of friends who have waited for marriage and so she was surprised to find out that we have. I don't blame my doctor for being surprised when I told him, but has anybody ever dealt with this kind of reaction from someone at church?
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