Our friends got married away.. REALLY informally..like they didnt even send out formal invites, they just told people they were getting married at "x location" on "x date" and if you wanted to come-then come! We could not afford to attend the wedding and didnt get an actual invite other than being told about it. They said they were going to have a bbq celebration when they got back for their friends who couldnt make it, therefore I was going to bring a gift then..but they never wound up having the party. So I havent gotten them anything yet..They also did not register for any gifts..suggestions on how to handle this? Do I get them something, and if I do..what? haha