Honestly, other than a couple tiny minor details, I could not have been happier with my day.
I would love to endorse the following vendors, who all did excellent jobs with good communication during the whole process and very very good pricing:
the University Club of Palo Alto
Norbert von der Groeben (photography)
both the Four Seasons and Dinah's Garden Hotel for their hotel blocking and suite upgrades
We mini-mooned in Sonoma, and now I'm back to normal life. It is really really weird thinking that we live together now. I cannot believe I have to figure out how to clear all these boxes out of the living room. The house is a disaster with both of our unpacked stuff and all the wedding gifts. Eek!
And I'm going to hang around for a while at least. We need to keep the Bay Area board going!