Venue Issues

Re: Venue Issues

• Getting2Vowels member

  

  June 2012

  Just breathe. It will all come together. An afternoon wedding is just as pretty. A friend of mine got married last weekend and from the pictures they took inside you could never tell what time it was. How come you need to change photographers? I'm crossing my crossables for you!

  

  
  

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• WildMagelet member

  

  June 2012

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2013-weddings_venue-issues?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:a322ad2c-25cd-4d52-b123-096e1e4ecda5Discussion:a0e7faae-7b70-441c-a5cf-29c62ed883bfPost:90dedd77-a936-4408-9750-23561c233d65">Venue Issues</a>:
  [QUOTE]I think I might kill someone soon.  I have had such an awful headache for days now.  We are now stuck with the delimma of having to either <strong>change our date to the Saturday and to a daytime wedding to keep the church or change church so we can keep our date and our photographer. </strong> I am so stressed because it had come to a final decision on these things already and low and behold everything has to change.  We really wanted a night time wedding and it happens to be my grandparent's 60th anniversary on the 4th.  My Granny and PawPaw actually cried when we told them.   Now don't get me wrong what's important is marrying the man that loves me more then anything in this world for who I am.  But, I can't help feeling angry and hurt by this problem.  I guess that means everything was just to perfect and no one can have everything they want.   Hopefully we can figure it out tonight after we go to the other churches to see the inside.   
  Posted by MrsSearad[/QUOTE]<div>
  </div><div>So - Daytime Saturday is the only time the Church has available and photographer is already booked for that date?</div><div>
  </div><div>I really feel like time of day changes the formality of a wedding, so essentially it sounds like you have to pick between:</div><div>
  </div><div>Ceremony Venue </div><div>vs</div><div>Date</div><div>+ Formality</div><div>+ Photographer</div><div>
  </div><div>Which could be so much easier if your grandparents anniversary wasn't thrown into the mix (believe me I know!)</div><div>
  </div><div>Personally I'd start shopping around for a new ceremony venue (although my childhood paster moved away when I was 12, & I've never had a real "connection" with a specific church since.) </div><div>
  </div><div>If you decide the church is a must-have your grandparents should understand that logistically it just didn't work out.  You could also ask your photographer for a peer recommendation for someone who might be available on the new date.
  
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• MrsSearad member

  

  June 2012

  We are looking at a different church for the ceremony.  We are still keeping in mind the Saturday especially now that my grandparents and aunts are essentially begging me to move it to a Saturday. I was really wanting an evening cocktail formal affair.  Everyone in short dresses and really elegant with lights in galss containers hanging from the oak trees.  We have been talking every spare moment we have about what we should and want to do.  The up side with moving it to Saturday is I get my church and we get to have a mass like we wanted but where asked not to do by my family again.  My grandparents are getting old and my aunt is sickly and they do not believe they can handle a mass at night and now on top of that they don't think they can handle an evening wedding.  Hopefully we come to a official decision soon.  I keep going back and forth because I want to be happy but I want everyone else to be happy too. It's such a hard decision to make I will say.  I just wish the bishop wouldn't have decided he needed the Cathedral on our original wedding date.  At least I still get to marry the man who makes my heart skip a beat when I look at him even after 5 years.
  
  Thank you ladies for your wisdom and help

  

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