We're trying to figure out where to have our ceremony in northwest IN....most likely in Valparaiso.
We don't belong to a church and don't want to join one just to get married there. Is it the norm for most churches to require that? I know one local church had on their site that you had to be a member or a child of a member to be married there.
FI's step brother is also a pastor, and we would like it if he could marry us. I have a feeling that a church wouldn't allow someone else to come in and marry a couple.
Any help would be appreciated!

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