I am having a small wedding with only family and very close friends being invited. I have 3 girls in my WP, 2 of them are my sisters. Most of the guest list for the wedding is OOT, so would they all be invited to the shower? My older sister has very generously offered her house as the location for the shower, but before starting the planning she asked me if I even wanted one. I know a lot of brides hope for a shower and that they are gifts, but can you turn one down? Is it weird to have a shower with 10-15 people (not including OOT)? I really don't want my WP to spend their time and money planning a shower if only a few people can come. I would feel really bad if that happened. Advice/suggestions greatly appreciated. TIA!