So I am pretty much doing everything myself when it comes to the decorating. FMIL has been such an amazing help. She is helping me with all the centerpieces and the tablecloths. She is also doing all the alterations on my dress for me so I don't have to pay for it. Now today she emailed me and asked if I had bought my ring bearer pillow and if I hadn't she has the material so we could make it this weekend when FI and I go visit. I am so excited. That is one less thing I have to buy now.