Hey everyone! I hope this post wont sound terribly shallow or mean in any way towards my fiance, but my guy could really stand to lose some weight and I dont know how to tell him without hurting his feelings. Hes always been a big guy and Im totally ok with that. When we first started dating he was in the marines and even though I always knew hes the type of guy that will never have a six pack (and im ok with that) he was still in great shape.
However, since getting out of the marines 2 years ago and being unemployed for a year, he has packed on about 50lbs. Of course i love him the same no matter what his body looks like, but ill be completely honest, its def affected our relationship a bit and our sex life. I just dont know how to tell him in a nice way and get him motivated to start working out again. Its so hard too because we work opposite schedules. I work during the day and he works at night. So its not like I can say hey lets go to the gym together. And I can try to cook healthy things for him but he wont eat leftovers and pretty much grabs stuff to eat on the go since he's so busy with work at college. Any ideas on what I can try to do to get him to want to be at a heathier weight? I feel like Ive tried everything..