Finally...found a house my FI and i both agree on and put a bid on it today...well trying to at least. I have been trying to reach my bank.
The house is a small but cute 3 BR 1 Bath with a huge basement with potential. We plan to if we buy it to finish the basement and make it a man cave with another bathroom. For us right now it is fine and has room for 2 little ones. :-)
http://www.zillow.com/homedetails/476-Wellwood-Dr-Yaphank-NY-11980/2123367773_zpid/