Yeah I kind of think you are mentally deficient if you get accidentally knocked up. Unless you are like the 1% of people that manages to get KU while on the pill.
Women have fought and fought for the right to prevent pregnancy. If you purposefully decide to ignore these hard earned birth control methods (unless it's for religious reasons), personally I hardcore judge you.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bump-ps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2d5c6d1d-4859-473e-b9da-663749e5bef6Post:e71c3f6b-3b60-4bdb-9e3e-2cb657b3aa58">Re: The Bump PS</a>: [QUOTE]You guys and your common sense. There's no place for that on the Bump. Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
This is as bad as the one stating they are getting an abortion this week because she has her hands full with 2. Seriously? It will work out in the end or put it up for adoption. Abortion isn't a form of birth control.
I know my chances are slim to get KU and I still would never go without some sort of birth control to make sure it doesn't happen, until I am ready.
I don't want to know if someone is getting an abortion. I try not to judge other people's choices, but really having your hands full does not seem like a good reason to end a life.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bump-ps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2d5c6d1d-4859-473e-b9da-663749e5bef6Post:ffce377e-cec5-4fa8-aa62-8c3127868b8c">Re: The Bump PS</a>: [QUOTE]This is as bad as the one stating they are getting an abortion this week because she has her hands full with 2. Seriously? It will work out in the end or put it up for adoption. Abortion isn't a form of birth control. I know my chances are slim to get KU and I still would never go without some sort of birth control to make sure it doesn't happen, until I am ready. Posted by playtnteppg27[/QUOTE]
<div>Uh, actually 30-40% of abortions are performed on married women. I think it's incredibly naive to say "it will all work out in the end." That's how people end up in bad situations. </div><div> </div><div>And yes, abortion is a form of birth control, since it prevents birth.</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bump-ps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2d5c6d1d-4859-473e-b9da-663749e5bef6Post:e7dbda95-ec20-4231-abc3-cfa74d4757b5">Re: The Bump PS</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: The Bump PS : Uh, actually 30-40% of abortions are performed on married women. I think it's incredibly naive to say "it will all work out in the end." That's how people end up in bad situations. And yes, abortion is a form of birth control, since it prevents birth. Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
Ditto this. How can someone just say or think it'll all work out. I think abortion is definitely a viable option for someone who already has two kids and won't be able to handle another. Whether it be they cannot handle the child financially, in terms of time, emotions, etc. It is not our place to judge or decide when a woman should have to have a baby. My body my choice.
When I got pregnant at 19 I was on the birth control pill. It was my choice to not have an abortion or consider adoption. I unfortunately miscarried but I was thankful to be able to make the choice best for me and my possible child. I would't ever assume that my choices will work for everyone else.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bump-ps?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2d5c6d1d-4859-473e-b9da-663749e5bef6Post:0bd16078-a482-4a9a-87ff-1e401bc29173">Re: The Bump PS</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: The Bump PS : Ditto this. How can someone just say or think it'll all work out. I think abortion is definitely a viable option for someone who already has two kids and won't be able to handle another. Whether it be they cannot handle the child financially, in terms of time, emotions, etc. It is not our place to judge or decide when a woman should have to have a baby. My body my choice. ... I would't ever assume that my choices will work for everyone else. Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]
Re: The Bump PS
Women have fought and fought for the right to prevent pregnancy. If you purposefully decide to ignore these hard earned birth control methods (unless it's for religious reasons), personally I hardcore judge you.
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[QUOTE]You guys and your common sense. There's no place for that on the Bump.
Posted by crfische[/QUOTE]
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I know my chances are slim to get KU and I still would never go without some sort of birth control to make sure it doesn't happen, until I am ready.
I don't want to know if someone is getting an abortion.
I try not to judge other people's choices, but really having your hands full does not seem like a good reason to end a life.
House / Baby blog
[QUOTE]This is as bad as the one stating they are getting an abortion this week because she has her hands full with 2. Seriously? It will work out in the end or put it up for adoption. Abortion isn't a form of birth control. I know my chances are slim to get KU and I still would never go without some sort of birth control to make sure it doesn't happen, until I am ready.
Posted by playtnteppg27[/QUOTE]
<div>Uh, actually 30-40% of abortions are performed on married women. I think it's incredibly naive to say "it will all work out in the end." That's how people end up in bad situations. </div><div>
</div><div>And yes, abortion is a form of birth control, since it prevents birth.</div>
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: The Bump PS : Uh, actually 30-40% of abortions are performed on married women. I think it's incredibly naive to say "it will all work out in the end." That's how people end up in bad situations. And yes, abortion is a form of birth control, since it prevents birth.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
Ditto this. How can someone just say or think it'll all work out. I think abortion is definitely a viable option for someone who already has two kids and won't be able to handle another. Whether it be they cannot handle the child financially, in terms of time, emotions, etc. It is not our place to judge or decide when a woman should have to have a baby. My body my choice.
When I got pregnant at 19 I was on the birth control pill. It was my choice to not have an abortion or consider adoption. I unfortunately miscarried but I was thankful to be able to make the choice best for me and my possible child. I would't ever assume that my choices will work for everyone else.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: The Bump PS : Ditto this. How can someone just say or think it'll all work out. I think abortion is definitely a viable option for someone who already has two kids and won't be able to handle another. Whether it be they cannot handle the child financially, in terms of time, emotions, etc. It is not our place to judge or decide when a woman should have to have a baby. My body my choice. ... I would't ever assume that my choices will work for everyone else.
Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]
My thoughts exactly.
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