Hi everyone!
This is my first post on TK and I just want to see if there's anyone out there like me. My BF and I have only been dating for 8 months or so but have lived together the entire time and I'm 5 months pregnant with our first child. Recently, he left to go overseas for a little while to provide our little family with a better life, however, I have a million things I want to do before he comes home. We've discussed marriage and know that we both want to spend the rest of our lives together but he doesn't want to feel pressured to "tie the knot". I completely understand that seeing as we've both been married before and know what a difficult marriage can be like. He's everything that I could ever want and I can't wait to share his last name. Here's my issue with not waiting to get married. We live in a semi small town...people here look down on those who have children out of wedlock. I know I shouldn't care what others think but it's very hard not to especially now that I'm showing. Atleast a ring on my finger wouldn't look as bad as calling him my boyfriend or baby daddy lol. My plan is to have the nursery, baby's stuff, bills, cars, house, wedding plan, all taken care of by the time he gets back...what do you guys think?
Sorry for the ridiculously long post! :-)