I was very thin before my FI and I were together. I am not overweight now but I am not comfortable with myself either....very far from it. The biggest problem is the junk he keeps in the house. He is a junk food junkie and can eat it all day every day without gaining an ounce! I'm usually a pretty good eater but when that stuff is in the house its just too convenient. We have discussed him keeping that stuff somewhere I can't see it which worked for about a week. He can't "give it up" completely because he would go insane. Does anyone have any tips on controlling cravings, especially if you know its right there in the kitchen??