I am painfully shy. That being said, 90% of our wedding guests are my FI's. Dollar dances are tradition around this area, but I HATE them, so, as a compromise, we have printed out play dollars with a picture of us on them, and on the back they say advice for the bride or advice for the groom....then we're going to have a jar for people to put them in as they come up to dance..that way people can stick their 'advice' in the jar throughout the reception of they chose not to dance with us. (I am well aware that some here will think that's tacky, silly, stupid, etc, but I love my FI and I want to make the day special for him too, and this is important to him). I told him I would rather have a root canal and a mammogram at the same time than have to dance with all those strangers, but I am going to do it.....now, the question....does anyone have any advice for how to get through it? I'd rather not imagine our crowd in their underwear LOL.