So I have wedding planner...Check! but I think I may be driving her a little crazy because I already know what I want and everytime she has an idea "I'm like uummm no I like this instead" lol. But anywho I have an issue going on in my head that is premature I know but it still won't go away...I am having my ceremony and reception in 2 different locations, which is pretty normal, but I'm wondering if she should be at both or would it be too much on her. I need someone to hand out parking vouchers to our guests when they arrive to the ceremony so they won't have to pay for parking in the garage, and then I need someone to control the ceremony music as we walk down the aisle (my ceremony site said they won't do the controling of the music)..What do you ladies suggest I do other than just "calm down" lol?