Okay i heard u arent suppose to send them with the invitations so when do u send them? and should i register is this is our 5 yr renewal? Most of the ppl coming either didnt get us a gift at first or werent invited to the first one! Like i have said millions of times our 1st wedding was HORRIBLE! NO pictures and we got 3 gifts! But i wont dwell on that any longer.... Thanx in advanced for your help!