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Bachelor party in Vegas...

ochsd010ochsd010
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Hey Ladies

My fiance and I have been engaged for only 2 weeks and already his friends are talking about bringing him to Vegas for his bachelor party...

The only thing running through my mind is the movie The Hangover, actually a few of his friends could probably be IN that movie.

I trust him, thats not the issue. But Vegas, good Lord. Am I crazy for not being gung ho about this!?

What are your thoughts?
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Re: Bachelor party in Vegas...

  • Allycat11Allycat11
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    edited December 2011
    You and your FI should talk about guidelines for your bachelor/ette parties.  This is something you both need to agree on and stick to it.  From there you need to trust that your FI will stand up to his friends if they are doing something he is not comfortable with.

    Also, your wedding is 10 months away, a lot can change.  When they sit down and look at the financial side of it, it may not even happen.  Think about it...how many times have you said to someone, "OMG, it would be so cool if we did X".  It is not uncommon for "X" to never happen.
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  • morenachica110morenachica110 member
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    edited December 2011
    Ditto PP. As much as FI's buddies might WANT to go to Vegas, it won't happen because I know everyone's waaaaaay too poor. Anyways, talk with your FI. Personally, I wouldn't care. I would just make sure we had a set limit of money he could blow.. I mean use (=P) for gambling. But if it really makes you unhappy, he should be open about it.

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  • ochsd010ochsd010
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    edited December 2011
    Very true - thanks for your insight :) I hope it works out that way haha
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  • alison2486alison2486 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks for posting this, I was about to do the same.  Only my situation is somewhat a lose-lose.  We live in Tampa, the Tampa strip clubs are "world famous" because they are fully-nude and you can touch... They actually grab the guy's hands and force the guy to grope them.  While I have talked to my FI about my nervousness, its his friends and all of their FATHERS I don't trust.  The last bachelor party he went to was for one of his best friends, the groom ended up making out with the stripper, and the Groom's father was there! So needless to say, I am freaking out.  

    His friends were all planning on going to Vegas for Memorial Day already, so there is a stong possiblility that will happen.  Everytime the bachelor party thing gets brought up we end up getting in an arguement.  Any tips on how to approach this without coming across like I am a nag? Please help :(
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  • rachael7183rachael7183 member
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    My fiance is going too, Memorial Day Weekend...I trust him and I really dont think he would be the type to cheat, but I cant say the same for his brother - - whom he is going with - - his brother got married young and I have heard rumors that he cheats on his wife here and there...Funny, because she is totally cool with the trip!! WTF?
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