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June 2012 Weddings

Need help with ceremony time/length of reception.

Here is my timeline as it stands right now. We will have a simple reception, no scheduled speeches, no garter/bouquet toss. Pretty much just eating, greeting, cake, father/daughter/son/mother dance, first dance and dancing until 11pm.

We can't get into our venue before noon, and have to be out by midnight. We are doing a first look and all the photos before the ceremony except for one large group picture of his side and my side. (That will be after the ceremony, see timeline.) We are not doing a cocktail hour, nor do we have any gaps to fill. (4:30-5pm we will be doing the two group photos, and there won't be anyone excluded so no need to fill that half an hour for some people.)

Do you think there is enough time for a decent reception? Should I move our ceremony up to 5pm, giving us more time for photos?

8am- 
Meet at our house. Have some muffins and juice/cofee/tea for breakfast. We will need 3 hours for hair. (I added in a little extra time in case we need it and I have a few friends that like to be late.)
 
Noon-
This is the earliest we can get into our venue. Be at the theatre to set up food/drinks, flowers, tablecloths and runners. Set up gift and card table. Set up cake table. Reserved seating at reception. Those that are helping will have their own tasks so stuff gets done in a timely manner. Have Corby set up the alter.
 

1 to 2pm-

Wedding party and parents get dressed.


2 to 3:30pm-
First look and photos of wedding party and immediate family. (Parents, grandparents, siblings and their children.) 
 
3pm-
Have Roni bring the cake over. Have DJ be there and setting up in theatre and lobby.
 
3:30 to 4pm-
Wedding party relax in green room. (This can be used as a buffer if something runs later than expected.)
 
4pm-
Wedding!
 
4:30-
Group picture of his side and my side.
 
5 to 11pm- 
Reception
 
11 to 12pm-
Clean up and be out by midnight!!!

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Re: Need help with ceremony time/length of reception.

  • Looks good but is there any way at all you can fit a decorator into your budget, not a DOC but just someone to decorate the event for you so you have more time? Your mom could always check out the finished project & see if it is good enough, plus could have it drafted on paper. 
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  • I think it looks really good.... I think that is plenty of time!
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_need-ceremony-timelength-of-reception?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:e9c9f2ee-36e5-41cd-b28a-d99058552674Post:0f26f9fe-1645-4dcd-b78e-d8c4a7de92a4">Re: Need help with ceremony time/length of reception.</a>:
    [QUOTE]Looks good but is there any way at all you can fit a decorator into your budget, not a DOC but just someone to decorate the event for you so you have more time? Your mom could always check out the finished project & see if it is good enough, plus could have it drafted on paper. 
    Posted by sweetcanadian1979[/QUOTE]

    I have a ton of help. I am planning on having a few of my BMs be in charge of single things, (Like tablecloths and runners, centerpieces and bud vases, putting centerpieces and buds in vases, etc.) and then anyone who wants to help the person in charge of that area, they can and I won't have to worry about haning over everyone. I can get my stuff done. This way I don't get asked "what can we do to help?" every two seconds. :P
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  • I was wondering the same thing as Bonnie....are you and your wedding party setting up the venue or can you have someone else do it?  My venue will do it for me but my aunt wants to make sure it's right so she and I believe my brother's FI are going to set it up (she isn't in the WP and my brother is).  Also, you could end your reception at 10 or 10:30 instead of 11 to make sure you get out of there on time?  My venue's typical cocktail hour and reception is 5 hours total. 
  • time will be gone before you know it, trust me, i thought that with my social & then so many little things popped up & i had about 10 people helping me, the whole day was gone & i had no downtime what so ever, we started @11 & the first time i got to breath was 9 before we went into the hall. I did NOT even have time to eat, i half ate in the car on the way to my hair apt.

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