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Sierra524Sierra524 member
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If the bride's parents name are on the invite as "Mr. & Mrs. Brides Parents request the honor...", does that mean that the RSVPs should go to them too? I really want to keep track of my own RSVPs but I am not sure of the proper way of doing this since my parents are hosting.
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  • itzMSitzMS member
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    Just my opinion, but I wouldn't side-eye your folks' address as the return address on the invitation and the RSVP envelope to your address.

    Quite honestly, I've never even paid attention to either address, I just drop it in the mail.
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  • B2Z728B2Z728 member
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    Technically, yes. But I don't really think you'd be breaking a huge rule if you did that and doubt most people would care or notice. Our rsvp's went to my parents. My mom kept track of all our rsvps on a shared google spreadsheet that we could look at the responses came in. But we also live in the same town as them and talk often so if there were any questions, it would be easy to clear up.
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  • Sierra524Sierra524 member
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    See here is the thing. I ordered invites already, and they said "together with their parents..." My mom threw a FIT. So, we ordered new ones that say they are hosting. However, when I ordered my first set, I also ordered 140 return labels with our address on them....1 for the invite, 1 for the rsvp. I dont want to waste those! So, I think I am just going to use them and have them sent to us.
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  • Jen4948Jen4948 member
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    Well, they would be the default people to respond to if your RSVPs don't have addresses on them.  You are not required to use their address as the RSVP address though.  It can be yours if you prefer.
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  • PookiesonPookieson member
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    I think it's fine.  We are hosting our wedding and the RSVP's are coming back here, but I wouldn't side eye them going to your house if your parents are hosting. 

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  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    If you are keeping track, it is best for them to go to you. 
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