I'm back to square one, and I'm okay with it. My ex fiance could not understand that my son came first, even though he has a four year old daughter. Instead of being concerned when he is sick, its you have a fiance you needs you to. I will not for any man put them before my son. I'm very at peace with my decision. I took my son to his dad after his dr.s appointment today, and i explained everything to him. He agreed with me. I don't think i'm in the wrong. Do you ladies?