My bridal party consists of my MOH (sister), my matron of honor (best friend), and 3 of my close friends. Due to my sister living 3 and half hours away and her and I not being extremely close, my matron of honor is organizing the bachelorette party with the help of the other bridesmaids and input from MOH. Due to my sister living so far away and being underage, my matron wants to throw two parties: one where we go out to dinner and do something like galactic bowling, and the other would be us older girls going out for a night on the town (they have a whole night planned so I'm speculating on specifics). Do you think having two bachelorette parties is ok and will my sister be offended if I explain to her the situation? I don't want to hurt feelings and i specifically told the other bridesmaids that I wouldn't mind having one party.