So I just found out that FI's aunt received a STD for a wedding. Weeks later she and her husband hadn't gotten the formal invite. FI's aunt asked about it at a family gathering saying she thought her invite had actually been lost in the mail. After all, you don't send a STD without following with an invite. But then the bride said an invitation hadn't been sent but FI's aunt could still go if she wanted. WTF???? They seriously sent her a STD and then cut her from the final guest list. I am so angry for her!