My step sister and i get along....as in we are cordial, but i really dont like her and she doesnt like me. (this is the one who told me she couldnt come to our engagement party in a thank you note). Anyway, she called my step mom and told her that she was invited to her daugters baptism but my father isnt, then reminded her a few weeks later he wasnt invited. this all started because my fatehr gave her husband the check when they went to lunch cuz her husband NEVER pays. This really pissed me off, my daddy has treated her lik a daughter but she couldnt handle the "realness" of his attitude when he would tell her about herself. (talk about putting my step mom in a awkward situation)
I feel offended that she told my father he couldnt go somewhere with his wife (she also told her mother he couldnt come to the hospital when her baby was born). i know she cant come to the wedding anyway but i was going to send an invite. at this point, i dont want to send her one at all. i dont even want to extend the courtesy. I feel as though my family NEVER has drama....and you come along and start all this mess. i feel like sending the message that since you wanna act stupid, i just wont fool with you at all.
what would you do? send it and be a nicer person, or shun her just like she did my father and our family? i want her to understand that im not ok with what she did and ive got nothing else to say to you. ive tolerated her spoiledness for years and now she is using her baby against my step mom, basically making her choose between her grandchild and her husband. thats not cool. FI doesnt think we should send her an invite, or if we do, only put her name on it and not include her husband so she knows how it feels. I dont want to send one at all....i just dont want to put my step mom in another awkward situation.
I dont want to be petty....but I really dont want to be fake either.