I'll try to condence this as much as possible. When my FI and I started planning, we knew we wanted an adults only wedding. We love kids, but SO MANY of our friends have little ones that our guest list would have swelled by at least 50. For the most part, everyone has been great and been super excited for the wedding.
Then, there's my "cousin". He's my step-father's nephew, and I've only met him a handful of times, but my mom insisted that we invite him. He and his wife are coming from New Hampshire to Ohio for the wedding. I think this is lovely and I'm quite touched. However, they wrote in the 5 year old daughter on the invitation. She will be the only child at the reception other than my niece and nephew who are my FG and RB. I feel weird about this, especially because she could have been left in the care of her grandparents or her aunt in NH.
Now, "cousin"'s wife is making demands about the menu. She needs a kid's meal. she needs everything to be gluten free and wants a dessert option. I understand food allergies, but really? I'm sorry thgat my cake isn't gluten free.
I know I'm probably stressing for no reason, but the more I think about it, the more annoyed I get. What should I tell her about the dessert? I have the final meeting with my caterer tomorrow.
