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maybe she should rethink TTC

picklesx
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It would be really great (lengthy vent)

if AF just showed up already so we can move on to the next cycle.

if DH would stop being as loud as he possible can at 2:30 when he finally gets off of his video games and comes to bed, which wakes me up and inevitably leads to me getting up to pee and tossing and turning after returning to bed for a good 30-45 minutes, which messes with my temp since I take it at 4:50.

if DH would be more like the husbands that I read about on here and actually act like he's excited to be TTC. I don't doubt that he wants to be doing this but a little enthusiasm or encouragement wouldn't kill you once in a while! I'm of the opinion that if you really want to be doing this you should be supportive. I understand that he's much more laid back than I am and as a female I am going to be more into it than he is but FFS, come on. He's one of those guys who even if we were to get a BFP he'd be like, "Oh, ok, that's cool," and go right back to what he was doing. I love him to death, but he's just a little too laid back about everything, I feel like.

/ vent.

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because my guess is he'll still be playing video games all night once the kid comes along
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Re: maybe she should rethink TTC

  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah, I'd really take a break from TTC.
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011

    I'm sad that she is married to a 12 year old.

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    I just a friendly gal looking for options.

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  • HeffalumpHeffalump member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't doubt that he wants to be doing this but a little enthusiasm or encouragement wouldn't kill you once in a while!

    Um, if he doesn't show any enthusiasm or encouragement for TTC, what makes her so sure that he wants a kid?
  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    $5 he wants to name it "master chief" if it's a boy, and "princess peach" if it's a girl.
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  • tawillerstawillers member
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    edited December 2011

    "as a female I am going to be more into it than he is"

    Huh.  My DH was so excited to TTC DD, and he loves talking about TTC in the near future.  He's very much into it.

  • GBCKGBCK member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_maybe-she-should-rethink-ttc?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:c48123fc-d03b-4d07-9bb5-94188a4241d6Post:87f55752-2a5c-4276-a173-27ff730d7884">Re: maybe she should rethink TTC</a>:
    [QUOTE]I don't doubt that he wants to be doing this but a little enthusiasm or encouragement wouldn't kill you once in a while! Um, if he doesn't show any enthusiasm or encouragement for TTC, what makes her so sure that he wants a kid?
    Posted by Heffalump[/QUOTE]

    hell, no enthusiasm for sEX is a red flag
  • edited December 2011
    I'm sorry, but what's TTC?
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_maybe-she-should-rethink-ttc?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:c48123fc-d03b-4d07-9bb5-94188a4241d6Post:d7b32201-cb1c-4772-9ac1-96a8e9d78659">Re: maybe she should rethink TTC</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm sorry, but what's TTC?
    Posted by chiwawa[/QUOTE]

    Trying to Concieve
  • edited December 2011
    Aaah, ok.  I figured it had something to do with pregnancy but I couldn't figure it out.  Thanks!

    Yeah, I don't think I'd be doing that with someone who still places such a high priority on his video games.
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