I know that everyone is getting close to their weddings and busy so not really on here. But I need a little support today. Family support.
So there is a long backstory that involves my dad and drugs. He basically has been an addict forever and in 1994 it kind of came to a head. My mom left him, he punched out a window at my grandparents house where we lived, he stole money from her, and he disappeared. He reappears every now and then and when I was in high school up through early college I tried to have a relationship with him. It would go fine for awhile but then he would ask me to have my mom stop child support or something. He was just using me. There was a time that he leached on to another family and I sent them all Christmas presents and stuff. He sent me a bunch of emails calling me stuck up and spoiled and all these horrible things. Then he disappeared again.
Since he heard I was getting married he has been texting me non-stop. I don't normally reply. My grandpa (his dad) died this year and he contacted me afterwards (by text) asking if I wanted any pictures. I told him to send them to my mom's house. I don't want him to know where I live. This morning he sent me a bunch of nasty texts again. It started with the pictures again. Then telling me that since he wasn't invited to the wedding that he has no daughter and that I'll be divorced soon and good luck on my starter marriage. Then it launched into telling me to f*ck off and die a slow death like my mother (who is perfectly healthy by the way), calling me a b!tch, and telling me to choke on something. Then he called me the horrible c word.
I can't even. I'm so mad that I'm shaking. I told him I would call the police, but there isn't anything that they can do. I know that. Why would someone treat their daughter this way?
**Sorry for the epically long post, but I'm alone until this evening when FI gets home.