So, my fiance is a first-generation American whose parents live in India along with the rest of his family. They're all Hindu and expect a traditional South Asian wedding. My family is Jewish and lives here in America and wants a Jewish wedding. Both families are only willing to pay for a wedding of their religion/ethnicity and are willing to each pay for one. Our original plan was to have our big South Asian wedding in India and fly my parents/close family over there and then do the same for his family and a Jewish wedding here in America, but due to some health issues (nothing serious), we're not going to be able to travel to India any time soon (years probably). Not wanting to delay the wedding(s) that long, we're thinking of having both ceremonies over here on the same weekend.
So our plan was then to combine the religious/ethnic traditions and have a mixed up ceremony that satisfies all the traditions that my fiance and I care about. Unfortunetly, neither set of parents is okay with this, as they both want something more traditional. So, we've talked with both families and think we've agreed upon having a Jewish ceremony Saturday evening with reception and then a (naturally much larger) South Asian ceremony on Sunday after noon with reception that evening. If our parents are willing to pay for all this, does this seem doable? Or are we in over our heads?