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Checks in lieu of attendence?

julzyjulzy member
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in October 2012 Weddings
We just got a check from a couple in an RSVP who can't attend the wedding. I'm thinking the proper thing to do is send a thank you card now and cash it.

Should I send another thank you after the wedding? Our thank you cards post-wedding will have a picture from the wedding on the front, so I think it might be nice to send a followup thank you note?
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Re: Checks in lieu of attendence?

  • snuff9861snuff9861 member
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    Yes cash it now but set the money aside and get a thank you note out asap. As for the followup thank you, I do think it's unnecessary.
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  • LDubHawksFanLDubHawksFan member
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    Definitly cash it so their books aren't off for 2 months, but make a note and don't spend the money until after.  I don't think another TY after the wedding is necessary, but if you really want to send the pic, then go for it.

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  • ericaandtom2012ericaandtom2012 member
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    Cash it now and send the thank you note.  Put the money aside and don't spend it until after the wedding.  I don't think the post-wedding additional thank you is necessary, but you could always send them a photo with a little note saying you missed them at the wedding.
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