BM#1 TEXT #2 and told her she doesnt know why she is ignoring her, and if she doesnt text her back she knows what it is. #2 responded saying she never got any calls or texts from her., which is a lie, cuz when #1 called her from a number she didnt recognize she answered. I think it is safe to say that #2 doesnt want to be in the wedding and doesnt have the balls to tell anyone. Im getting annoyed tho because this is someones wedding, someone asked you to stand by their side to witness them commit their life to someone, and you just dont care? how rude! and then you want to ignore someone you call your friend, all over a dude? i see what kinda woman you are
and now lets talk parties....
At first i didnt want a shower, but i changed by mind. told my MOH i wanted one and she hasnt said anything else about it. i am going to be hands off and trust her, she plans good parties and feel like she is going to surprise me. I feel bad tho because she has lost her job and my mother hasnt helped wedding plan AT ALL....like, hasnt even asked about any of it. i cant be too mad tho....i know weddings arent her thing.
but the bacherlorette party is the job of bm#1, and if you cant tell, im a control freak, i want what i want, exactly how i want it. im freaking out that it wont be a good time or anything close to similar to what i told her id want(i know i know, im not entitled to these parties). I told her what I wanted when she asked, but i know itll be out of her budget. im trying to find cheaper solutions and she is telling me not to worry about it, but i know her....shes a very last minute person, oppisite of me who plans EVERYTHING well in advance. I also dont want her to asks the guests to contribute to the cost of the party, its something i would never do. Id be more than happy to help pay myself if thats what it comes down to. I was telling FI about it and he feels sad for me cuz he thinks I wont get what i want. So he called his cousin and told her to take the reigns and help the BM so Ill get exactly what i want. my BM likes to do clubbing and penis hats....none of this is my style and id be kinda pissed if i had to wear a penis hat and a pink tiara.
his best man is his brother and 2 groomsmen, one a brother and the other lives in Florida. Both brothers have wives who are crazy and who wont let them be around any women whatsoever, one even changes the tv channel when a hot woman comes on. Im hoping that he has a bach party that he loves. I know these boys will go all out for him....its the wives that may ruin it all and wont "allow" them to have a good time. The one wife ruined her husbands party by trying to show up when she heard strippers were involved. the other brothers wife doesnt let him leave the house...and he listens. He almost wasnt allowed to come to our engagement party, when he showed up...he wasnt allowed to bring his son.
Im going to think of a plan b for his party just in case. going to the corner bar to watch football doesnt sound much fun if you ask me. I want my baby to have a limo, and lots of booze and strippers and have the time of his life
im just getting really annoyed that neither one of us have anyone we can really count on and I hate when either one of us end up disappointed. Im almost ready to plan out own bach parties just so we are happy with the outcome.