My friend is getting married in Arizona (live in Florida) and she is only inviting immediate family. They will have a celebration party a couple months later in Florida.
I want to throw her a wedding shower, but it is my understanding that you can't invite anyone to the shower that isn't invited to the wedding. But no one is invited to the wedding (not even me). Should I just maintain that I don't invite anyone that isn't invited to the "after party"?
Should the shower be before the wedding or the after party?
TIA!