My fiance and I orginally planned a full out gothic wedding, completre with a black gown. He was needlessly shocked when I let him know I bought a white gown. It was just perfect, and I also got into the mood where I know this is the only time I would ever wear a white gown. I feel extremely guilty now because he claimed I threw off the whole look of the wedding (he later apoligized for that, but it still hurt!). I really want to keep the gothic feel to the wedding, specifically with what I wear...any sugestions?