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Feeling the Pressure

rlsmith15rlsmith15
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There are 89 days until my wedding and I am really feeling the pressure. I have been engaged for almost 2 years. I sent my Save the Dates out beginning of this year. I felt really good and organized. Now 3 months away, I am so un-organized. I don't know where I went wrong on things. I am in the invites stage and have so many decisions to make and don't know how to do so. I should be very organized because I am in my normal life. I just don't know where the wedding went off track. I have insisted on making everything myself. I just need some advice on how to get organized and make some decisions. I am staring to freak out a bit. HELP
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  • halij52002halij52002
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    I know how you feel. We will have been engaged 1 year and 8 months on our wedding day. Now, I don't know exactly what you have gotten done since you didn't mention them, but depending on how much you do have done I wouldn't stress. Try and get your mom, MIL and BM's to help out with any duties you can pass on. That's what they are there for. Try and get FI to help out as well and try not to handle everything yourself. Good luck and don't stress. There is still time to get organized. Take a day to just put everything in order and hand out tasks to your bridal party. Maybe that will take some stress off of you. :)

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  • IvidianIvidian
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    I don't always suggest this, but maybe make a list if you haven't? Write down what needs to be done and when it needs to be done by, and then start working on it, one thing at a time. As PP said, don't be afraid to reach out for help, just make sure you don't delegate tasks to people who don't have time to do it. Good luck, you'll be fine!
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  • fjw2012fjw2012 member
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    I'd say def make a list of what you still have to do. From there I would maybe rank them in order of importance. Try checking off one thing every other day. Also try and get some help from FI, BM, your mom, anyone you think would be willing to help. Maybe you could entice them to come over and help you address invites with drinks and a homemade dinner? Lastly, relax, the more relaxed you are the more likely you will be to feel like getting something done. 
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  • ninaelizabeth3ninaelizabeth3
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    I swear, I was just having this discussion with FI.  I am usually such an organized person, I've got files for files, and binders and dividers for everything.  However lately, I can't seem to stay organized.  I've got boxes of stuff everywhere and projects started in one room and parts and pieces in another.  My house is crazy right now.  I feel like this wedding is turning into a run-a-way train.
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