I chose my best friend of 10 years to be my MOH. She is super organized and really is the best person for the job, but a month ago her significant other died suddenly leaving her utterly greif stricken. My wedding is 6 mo. away and we need to get the BM dresses all figured out.
I have a couple different styles that I let the girls choose from and my other 2 bm's have already determined what size they need to get, its been narrowed down to two different styles and the other 2 girls have been gracious enough to wait until my MOH decides what dress she likes best before they order theirs. But everytime that I try to make plans with my MOH to go try on dresses she cancels on my cuz she not up to it, 3 times so far.
I understand that she has a lot to go through and I've been there for her for all of it. She cancelled again today and I feel guilty for feeling let down and dissapointed.
I know she's not herself and needs time to heal, she has told me that she wants to be there for me, and hopes it will be soon, but it changes everyday. How do I approach this sittuation? Time is running out, and I don't want to force her to do anything.