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Really, really need a prayer

So, as I'm sure you've been able to tell, I've been stressed and kind of miserable as of late because of all the wedding planning (my wedding is in 9 days).  My body can't handle stress well, and my health is suffering.  After I was laid off a year and a half ago, I developed gastritis, which is inflammation of the lining of the stomach.  It causes bad gastroesophagal reflux disease for me, as well.  My gastritis is getting almost as bad as when I first got it.  I am barely able to eat anything... all I had today (since 7:00 AM this morning) is half a bowl of oatmeal and banana and half a bland sandwich.  I've been in pain all day with burning in my stomach, and I'm getting upset thinking I won't be able to enjoy my wedding.  This is not how I ever imagined things going.

I think I may go to a GI doctor on Monday or Tuesday, but they've told me before that they can't really do anything.  There is a class of drugs called proton pump inhibitors, but they have bad side effects (brittle and more easily breakable bones).  You can't be on them long-term, and I already maximized it probably.  I was on it for 8 months (they recommend 2).  The stress of the wedding has completely undermined 1.5 years of recovery, and I feel so disheartened.   

I really need prayers that my stomach will heal.  Or at least that I will stay calm.  I'm overly sensitive to things right now, and it's hard for me to keep perspective.  

Re: Really, really need a prayer

  • SoonToBeGenaoSoonToBeGenao member
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    edited December 2011
    Omgosh! I'm so sorry to hear that you are having so much pain and discomfort. I will certainly pray for you!
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    You are definitly in my prayers!  And I hope your FI is being understanding and offering to help out.

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    Definitely praying for you GJones!!!
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    Praying for you right now!
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    Many prayers coming your way!

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    edited December 2011
    Praying for you!
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  • edited December 2011
    I am so sorry about this. I have stomach issues as well and I found that they were WAY worse when I was upset or stressed for long periods of time. Try to relax and do some NWR things. Also try to recruit more people to help with things. The less stressed you are, the better your stomach will be. I will pray! 
  • edited December 2011
    Lifting you up in prayers. This sounds really painful and hope it goes away soon. Can you and FI go for a walk and talk about NWR things?

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  • iamjoesgurliamjoesgurl member
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    edited December 2011
    Meds may not be able to help but our God is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20 says so).  I believe that He will hear our prayers and work in your life to bring about healing.  I will join the other ladies in praying for you.
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    Just prayed for you.  I have no clue about medicine related stuff, but I pray that God gives you the peace you need so that your body can work on healing itself (in addition to whatever medicine methods are used when you visit the doc!).  
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  • hanson2Bhanson2B member
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    edited December 2011
    I just said a prayer for you.  I've been really stressed lately, and it's helped me to take some time out of my day to just sit quietly, in a peaceful place (usually my bedroom or my back porch) to focus on nothing but my breathing and feeling God's peace.  If I start thinking about wedding things or any other stresses, I just try to put the "checklist items" out of my head for that time and thank God that I am blessed enough to be marrying such a wonderful person.  Just make sure to take some time out to focus on small beauties instead of big problems, and although I doubt that will cure your problems, maybe it will calm your stomach a bit.
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  • edited December 2011
    Prayers.  Go get a massage...it always help de-stress.
  • GJones27GJones27 member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks for your prayers and support, girls.  I'm feeling pokito better today.  I managed to eat a bowl of oatmeal and banana and a little bread today without tons of pain.  Yesterday was bad.

    I have prayed to God about my health, and unfortunately, it's not getting much better.  I know He has the power to fix these things, but somehow, there must be a reason behind why I'm not recovering.  He provides all we need for our salvation. 

    Lovestoshopforshoes, I would love a massage!  So badly need one.  It's just that money is kind of tight.  I had to pay all of my vendors, I'm not getting paid for the two weeks I take off, and I had to put down a whole new deposit for a law school.
  • mrandmrsbristmrandmrsbrist member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm praying!
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  • edited December 2011
    I am still praying for you. I think its important for us to gather together and pray for you, and this thread blesses me how many ladies are praying fervently for your health. Keep us updated, we're here for you!!!
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